It’s absolutely natural for a man to want to have a beautiful wife and a happy family. Sometimes it happens so that a very successful in career respect man, misses a family. Maybe he just didn’t have time to look for a nice girl, because he spent most of the time working, or just didn?t meet his sweetheart! However at some point of life a man realizes that his nice car, or a big house, or a well-paid job doesn’t make him so happy as it used to in the past! In Ukraine there?s a saying: “Man in his lifetime has to plant a tree, build a house and raise a son”, unfortunately we don’t have anything to do with trees or real estate, but we definitely can introduce you to a young, attractive and marriage minded lady, who will make a wonderful wife and a great mother for your kid (or kids).

Mordinson family has started working in the international dating field in 1999, and since then we had a privilege to introduce some of the most amazing, young and caring Ukrainian ladies to the men from all over the world.
Our strategy is personal introduction. We only have about 200 ladies. The gallery is kept up to date. All the ladies are available and live in Kharkov or its area and are able to meet you here.

We strongly believe that quality is a lot more important than quantity. That’s why all the ladies who you see at the gallery are carefully selected. We personally interview every girl in our catalogue. Each lady is photographed in Mordinson photo studio; there are only fresh, current and clear pictures in each lady’s profile. It’s also possible to ask for New Exclusive set of pictures that will be done particularly for you. The ladies get all the services FREE.
If you liked a lady and want to contact her, you may send an introduction letter to her. All the letters are professionally translated by staff translators, who have degrees in German and English, including a certificate from University of Cambridge in English (certificate #5889857) and Master Degree in Translation science (German and English) from Ukrainian People’s Academy. (degree XA#25265634).

A Mordinson Introduction is offering wide range of services that will help to develop your friendship, you can send flowers and gifts, talk over the phone, get her an English course, if her knowledge needs to be improved. It will be surprising to realise that just in a couple of weeks, you will be talking with the girl(s) like if you have known each other for ages! No letters can replace a meeting, so at some point of time you will decide to make a trip to Ukraine. We will give all the feedback needed to make a trip.

As you get to Ukraine, you are met by Mordinson representative who will serve you as an interpreter-coordinator during your trip. During your stay in Kharkov, you are going to stay in a modern, brand new Mordinson owned apartments. The apartments are approximately 70 square meters (754 square feet), equipped with powerful air conditioning and central vacuum cleaning systems. The apartment complex is situated in the very centre of the city, 5 minutes walk from main city Liberty Square.

You are to provide us with the list of the ladies you are interested in and if you have any preferences as for the meeting schedule. The meeting schedule is well organized and constructed in prior to your visit.

The initial meetings are usually not very long, 1,5 hour each. This way it’s possible to meet all the ladies of interest within the few days and to concentrate on those ladies who you feel the most comfortable with.
To have the second meeting scheduled with the ladies that you liked you are to give the names and ID# of the ladies to your translator/coordinator. We’ll contact the ladies and schedule the next meetings on your convenience.
Within 7 days you may meet as many ladies as you like any number of times. Meetings are one on one basis and take a place in some nice cafes or restaurants.

Joining A Mordinson Introduction elite dating club is the investment to your future family. It is an essential step on the way to finding a loving, caring and beautiful wife from Ukraine.

What does this term mean? Where does it come from? Why do dating services use this term? Let’s dot our “i’s” and cross our “t’s” once and for all!

International marriages are very popular now. Though many people can’t understand them. Sometimes they just need to “mature” for it. Nevertheless, developed communications and Internet have done their part. It has become convenient, accessible and quick to meet people from other countries. But it hasn’t always been so! However, international marriages did exist. How did people meet?

Here is the version of Yale Professor of History, Howard R. Lamar:

At the early period of history of the USA, in California, the Chinese who found themselves there absolutely without women, started to organize marriages through go-betweens. The Frenchmen who found themselves in Louisiana among the English-speaking population organized marriage-mediation in a big way. The brides were brought for them from France. The women usually came with small boxes and due to these boxes they were named “casket-girls”. They became well-known.”

Later so-called “mercy’s girls” appeared. Mercy imported girls to Wyoming, Oregon and Alaska in vans. But these potential brides turned out to be surprising. They started their businesses at the West – stores, sewing workshops, kitchens, and the marriage-intermediary didn’t work out. And the opposite example. To the far west women were brought to brothels from Germany and France. Many of them were prostitutes in Europe, but in a new, big and rich country they realized that they could start a new life and they scattered, dispersed in the environment and married farmers”.

It was about this time that the term “mail-order brides” appeared. Here is how the history of its origin is explained in Answers.com:

“The term probably originated during the colonial period when men traveled through various empires for financial gain. After establishing their income in a new colony they faced three choices:

- stay single,

- marry a local indigenous woman or,

- seek to have an available woman come from the metropolitan centre; or in the case of economic immigrants that came from an economically depressed region to seek employment, from their mother country.

Often these marriages were arranged by members of the immigrants family ‘back home’ and the relatives picked amongst available women to find one that would suit their family member thus they would negotiate with the woman before she left with her belongings (and perhaps with her children if she was a widow). Often these women were willing to travel for marriage because of the limited opportunity in their place of origin. This tradition continues amongst first generation immigrants to western countries, most particularly amongst Pakistani, Bangladeshi and East Indian males and females who wish to marry someone of similar social, economic and educational status; indeed many marriages are arranged in India and the bride and groom may not have much if any opportunity to court before the marriage ceremony is conducted.

During the twentieth century this tradition has been used for a (in some ways) similar, yet very different social phenomenon, that of a western male, usually second or third generation immigrant himself, seeking a woman from a more ‘traditional’ or non-western culture. For whatever reason, these men seek out women from various countries, most notably economically depressed parts of the world, such as countries in the Commonwealth of Independent States like Russia, Ukraine, Belarus and the other central Asian – stans, or from cultures where femininity is still encouraged and women are expected to take care of their husbands and engage in housekeeping, child rearing and other domestic chores».

It was in regard to the history of terms. However, international acquaintances became that popular during 1980-es. Telephone, fax, photos, catalogues.

Like some food you choose one out of thousands women, make an order, pay by a credit card and she is “coming over through Fed Ex in a big wooden crate”

I don’t know, guys, how effective this way was and how many positive stories can be told to advocate this way of acquaintance today. Still there are agencies that stick to this way.

HOW DO THEY WORK?
As a rule, at their sites there are thousands of women. 20-30 thousand is a norm. A huge catalogue, choose any. You can buy her contact information and correspond with her on your own, or can use the agency’s service for it. The main difference of this kind of agencies from dating services like ours (and their main minus) is that women are only pages of a catalogue for them: faceless, nameless goods.

The agencies like ours work with each woman personally! We not only know her by sight, but also checked her passport information, we know if she is well or ill at the moment, if she is in the city or left on business or holiday. We know some details of her life because we often talk to her at the office. We are more than marriage go-between for a woman. We are consultants, friends and psychologists. It is normal! So we can say with confidence: we answer for each woman of our agency! Can an agency that has 20 thousand women say it?
Why then you can find our site on request “mail order brides” in search services like http://www.google.com?

Unfortunately, this term is too loved by journalists and this is why it is so popular. And often, when talking about the bride from abroad, someone uses the term “mail order brides”, actually having no idea about the details of the process. So we have to use it in order than men who are interested in foreign brides get to our site.

Why “unfortunately”?

Because this term humiliates women! They find it very insulting that someone can think them to be goods that can be ordered by catalogue. The man who respects his bride will never allow himself, his relatives and friends to use this word.

This term is also very loved by American feminists. They say to American men: first you order wonderful, tender mail order brides and then we have to defend them from you! )

So I’d like to sum up:

“Mail order brides” is the term that can mislead you, because it is a well-promoted brand. We can’t send you a bride by mail, but we can acquaint you with real women who want to make a family. Feel the difference

They are possibly the most beautiful and desirable women on the planet, but sadly there is now distrust, both with the men interested in these ladies and the ladies themselves, both within the former Soviet Union and in particular, The Ukraine. This is a great pity and we believe largely due to misunderstanding, or failures of communication.

What do these ladies think? What is their point of view and how do they see the West, or the men that are so attracted to them? It is hoped that this series of interviews can help to break down these suspicions and doubts and help create trust and understanding. We believe that this ongoing series of articles will be of serious interest to any man seeking a Ukrainian, Russian bride, or partner.

Question. Hello, Lesya. Thank you for agreeing to this interview

Answer: Hello! I hope my interview will help somehow to overcome distrust of foreign men and open more interest towards Ukraine.

Question You are a very beautiful young lady, it is difficult to believe you have any problem attracting the attention of men?

Answer: I fell in love with American man. He broke my heart, left me and went to America. I have not met my type of man here in Ukraine. There is no problem to attract the attention of men attention, but as usually it doesn’t seem worth it.

Question. When did you decide to register to an international dating agency?

Answer: I found that values and priorities of Ukrainian and foreign men are different. So why I want to connect my life with a man from another country.

Question Was it something you did spontaneously, or did you consider this cautiously?

Answer: I am not a thoughtless person. My decision, I take my decision carefully.

Question. Was it an easy decision to take, seeking your soul mate internationally?

Answer: It was considered decision after experience of relationships with Ukrainian men.

Question. Many Ukraine ladies are very suspicious, or even frightened of seeking a man from the West. Do you have some fears also?

Answer: Yes. But I think: “Nothing ventured, nothing gained”

Question. Do you know that many western men are very mistrustful, or doubtful of finding a genuine and sincere Ukraine lady? Have you heard these stories?

Answer: Maybe men are suspicious because there is a big financial side involved in this search and international relationships. In some cases there is difficulties to recognize Lie and truth, benefit and sincerity. There is some risk.

Question. Please tell me, from the point of view of a Ukrainian Lady Do you think you can find a loving, caring and respectful man from a foreign country?

Answer: I think yes. “Hope springs eternal in the human breast”

Question. Have you personally heard of some very frightening stories? Of terrible things Happening to Ukraine ladies, on moving to a foreign country?

Answer: I communicated only with religious foreigners. They are very nice.

Question. But you are willing to try anyway?

Answer: I heard only stories with the good ends. I know many women who married abroad. They are not going to come back. They are happy.

Question. You are an exceptionally beautiful lady. As a theatre and stage manager, do you feel that you have a Greater possibility of success outside of The Ukraine?

Answer: I guess with my temperament and ambitions I can fulfill in any place.

Question. For me The Ukraine is a enigma, very beautiful, many very, very educated and Intelligent people, it seems to have so much potential and yet life seems very hard. Is it getting better? Do you feel life is improving within the Ukraine?

Answer: I love my country and it will be very difficult to leave it, only if there will be very distinctive reasons to leave here. I am restrained by the city I live. But I am not able to change something by myself. It seems there is an exclusive circle. Ukraine has a future, but it doesn’t have the present.

Question. Thank you, Lesya, for your honesty and openness. We wish you every success and Happiness and as the agency entrusted by you, we will be with you every step of the Way. Well actually until you tell us you do not need us anymore.

Answer: Thank you.

Question. May we include your photo/photos within this interview?

Answer: Yes.

A continuing series of interviews aimed at breaking down the barriers of mistrust and suspicion between Ukraine and Russian ladies and helping to promote understanding and trust across the linguistic, cultural and historic divide.

Avoiding the Pitfalls of Fraud

Most men agree that Russian women are some of the most attractive in the world, up there with the best of nations such as Brazil, Venezuela and Romania. But, is finding a beautiful Russian who is honest and legitimate, and who wishes to marry a Westerner a real option anymore? Fortunately, the answer to that question is still Yes. Finding those quality women, however, is an increasingly difficult task in today’s Internet marketplace.

The best option for finding a Russian bride is to travel to Russia, explore and travel the country, get to know the culture and feel for the language, and take care of business the old fashioned way – that’s right, walk right up and talk to her. If she doesn’t speak English, you’re on to the next. If traveling to Russia is out of the question, for financial or other reasons, finding a beautiful Russian bride is still possible, but requires additional caution.

Searching Google or Yahoo for Russian women will quickly uncover thousands of sites such as Date Russian Brides.com or Single Brides.com and many others. How do you know which is legit? You don’t. No dating site on the Internet is immune from fraud and international scam, not one. This knowledge alone can save the customer a lot of time, money and heartache.

The warning signs:

1. A woman who falls in love quickly, too quickly.

2. A woman with model like photos, like out of a magazine.

3. A woman who soon asks for money for visa or “emergencies”.

4. A woman who writes very general, almost form-like letters.

5. A woman who never speaks about herself or her family.

Now that you’re aware of the warning signs and you understand that fraud and scams from Eastern Europe are rapidly rising, you’re on the right track. But, what if the relationship progresses and you’re considering a serious committment? Get her checked out with a professional investigation from Wymoo. You’ve been talking with this woman for 6 months, and you trust her, you say. Too many victims have said the same, and still lost big. How does it happen? In short, the scammers are professionals.

More than ever… be skeptical and get her checked out!

Best of luck,

A. Hathaway

Copyright © 2005-2007 A. Hathaway

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